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White Lies Women Tell
It is a well-known fact that we tell little white lies all day long. Think of your own automatic misrepresentations of the truth: When someone asks how you’re doing, you reply with the typical “Good, thanks,” despite the fact that you’ve been dying of the flu all week. Or someone might ask for your opinion on his new hat, watch or jacket, and you answer with enthusiasm that you don’t feel “wonderful.“ And when your boss asks you to take on a certain task, you almost have to tell a white lie by saying “No trouble at all,” even when you have enough work to carry you through to 6 p.m.
Given the falsities we sputter each day, men are still no match for the white lies women tell. Women have been lying to men since the day they were born: Their mothers told them that they could be anything that they wanted to be and their teachers told them they were their little treasures. With great pride, we present to you six of the most common white lies women tell men.
why do people lie?
We tell white lies because, for better or worse, they help us manipulate people. We get something out of it, and people don’t like the truth. The truth is often boring (people don’t really care how we’re doing), hurtful (other people’s tastes are their own and there’s no need to tell them what you really think of their new whatever) or it’s not in our best interest to tell. Do you really want to tell the clerk at the corner store details about your personal life? We didn’t think so.
When it comes to intimate relationships, the truth can be unnecessarily hurtful (“It’s me, not you” -- of course it’s you, why else is she breaking up with you?). Most of the time, fudging the truth saves everyone from unnecessary bother and hurt feelings.
“It’s OK; it happens to everyone.”
It’s not, and it doesn’t. Of course everyone has sexual problems at some point for a variety of reasons, such as stress that causes impotence or premature ejaculation. It may be temporary, it may seem like the never-ending scourge of your life and it may render your self-esteem as good as useless. This is one of the white lies women tell to save your feelings -- she knows that if she tells you how frustrated she is that it will only make things worse. Though she doesn’t want you to feel bad, in the end she just wants you to do better next time.More white lies women tell...If your lack of performance is an ongoing problem, see a doctor for some alternative solutions. It’s important for the health of your relationship to do something about sexual problems, and if you blindly accept this white lie women tell, your relationship may suffer.
“Size doesn’t matter.”
Of course it does, or women wouldn’t bother saying “size doesn’t matter.” It’s the “how you use it” part, however, that is true regardless of your size. This little white lie women tell was fabricated for insecure men who didn’t know if they were big enough -- and obviously they weren’t if they got that answer. Women are taught that the male ego is a fragile thing, and the last thing men want to hear from any woman is that they’re unable to satisfy her. The bottom line: Be glad that you even have a penis.If you’re that worried about it, learn how to give her mind-blowing cunnilingus and she’ll have a keeper. Sexual satisfaction comes in many shapes and sizes and it’s intimately tied to our emotional satisfaction. There is a ”perfect shape and size,” but these vary from woman to woman. What you may lack in size, you'll make up for in enthusiasm and other skills, including conversational -- guaranteed she will be more impressed with that than some monkey with a big schlong.
“Nothing’s wrong.”
If she is bothering to say this white lie out loud, you both know it’s not true. There’s no doubt that you just asked “What’s wrong?” because you saw that something quite obviously was. She either can’t be bothered going into it again or she wants you to care enough to dig deeper. ‘Tis a game and it’s up to you if you want to play.“I got it on sale.”
Sure she did. Expensive beautiful things help make women feel rich and sexy. If you have a budget that doesn’t allow for these purchases, however, you may stumble upon a wee problem. Yes, she spends money -- hers or yours, it doesn’t matter -- on clothes, makeup, jewelry, and shoes. Then she tells you that she got them on sale, and who can resist a bargain? She knows you can’t. And she knows you won’t get too upset if she got something she really wanted that will make her look and feel good -- because she knows that you appreciate her looking good.“I’m cumming!”
This isn't always a lie, but it does happen. Unfortunately, women are able -- for many reasons -- to cheat their way through orgasm. Women forget that their sexual responsibility is in their own hands -- literally and figuratively. Too many women simply don’t know what they like and, therefore, can’t pass this vitally orgasmic information on to their partners, expecting their men to instinctively know what to do to get them off. This is one of the white lies women tell because it’s often easier to fib about it than to address the problem. This is also a white lie told by women to save the egos of men. Society raises men with the belief that it is their job to pleasure women, and if they are unable to complete the task, their egos suffer. Still, a little ersatz orgasm here and there for conveniences’ sake never hurt anyone, but constantly forgoing your own sexual pleasure because of insecurity is just so passe.One more white lie women tell and reasons for their deceit…
White Lies Women Tell
“You’re my best ever.”
You might be, but chances are you just said that to her and she is saying it back because she doesn’t know what else to say. So, she says it. Just accept it at face value. She is being kind, and you never know; if you really did have mind-blowing sex, perhaps she wasn’t lying. Or was she? Don’t sweat it, because at the end of the day it doesn’t matter. She is having sex with you and is at the very least pretending to like it a lot. What more could do you want? If she says it first, again, accept it at face value. Who cares if it’s the truth or a white lie. Hopefully your ego isn’t that fragile that it couldn’t cope with not being her best ever -- if that’s a problem for you, do everything in your power to be her best ever, seeing as it means that much to you. But how will you know? Will she tell you that you’re her best ever?
why do women tell white lies?
Many women are taught to be people pleasers and often use falsities and untruths to make their ride a little smoother. This skill is passed down to her by her mother, aunts, teachers, friends, and almost every other female with whom she comes into contact (excluding feminists and revolutionaries, of course). She knows the beauty of a good white lie, because she has probably been on the receiving end of them her whole life.
But, she also knows the truth. She knows when she isn’t good at something, despite receiving constant praise. She knows when she isn’t looking her best, yet someone will still bother telling her she’s looking great. She knows when she is being told the honest truth and because of all the lies, it hurts quite badly. This conditions people to be afraid of the truth because it hurts after all the placating lies we are fed.
white lies, black truth
Little white lies are part of being human. They are a legitimate means to an end, and they are neither right nor wrong. Being aware of the white lies women tell can help you decipher where you stand, and what she really means. But just be aware: Women are much better liars than men, so don’t try to bluff your way through things too often.
Women love men for their differences, and even though they may complain about it, frankness and honesty are generally always appreciated -- except when it comes to whether you are the best she has ever had, of which the only correct answer is "Yes, dear.”
Source:http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi_200/211c_dating_girl.html
